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Happy Anniversary To Us.2003-08-13 - 6:14 a.m. Yup - today is our 1 year anniversary. A year ago today at this time I was starting to get pretty nervous because I was supposed to meet Kurt in person for the very first time. He had managed to get his boss to let him work in Wheeling at the McDonald's on Dundee which is about a mile from where I work. I told him I'd meet him at this little dive bar named The Old Munich at 4 o'clock. We talked a couple times on the phone during the day. Now mind you, he had a "girlfriend" at the time, and I was "dating" Corey, the 23 year-old. During one of our phone conversations, I told Honey Bunny that I couldn't stay out with him at the bar that late because Corey was coming over to my house around 8 that night. This didn't go over too well with "Married with a Girlfriend" Man, and he said that he decided not to meet at the bar that afternoon. The nerve of him playing hard-to-get with me... Anyway, he eventually got over himself and we met up as planned. I knew the minute I saw him I was in trouble. I mean, I had already been talking to him on the phone for a few weeks at this point, and I knew I liked him, but I also knew his wife/girlfriend situation so in my head I was just kind of like his "buddy". He would talk to me about Kathy and Melanie. At first I would jokingly tease him about the whole "affair" thing, but after I heard enough about Kathy, I started encouraging him to stick with the girlfriend. I think my exact (ever so lady-like) words may have been, "Screw Kathy and fuck Melanie", or something equally as profound. I'm really glad he never did, by the way. So we sat in the bar for about 3 hours just talking and laughing. I remember at one point Kurt got up to go to the washroom and I was bumming a cigarette from a guy sitting next to us at the bar and the guy asked if Kurt was my boyfriend. I laughed and told him that Kurt already had a wife and a girlfriend, and that I was the other other woman. I remember that I was nervous as hell, but that I was also way way comfortable with him right from the get-go. He was making fun of me for biting my lip while I was sitting there, and the next thing I knew, HE was biting my lip for me. Then I remember him kissing me and me running my hand over his back through the armhole of his sleeveless shirt. Then it was time to leave and we walked outside and made out by my car, then talked on our cell phones to each other all the way home. I was a dead duck. I knew I was screwed. Here I was falling way hard for a married man with a girlfriend. Thank God Melanie had the decency to "break up" with him after he told her that he met me, found me attractive, and kissed me. What a gal. One down - one to go. I knew he wouldn't be married forever, because while we had been talking on the phone every day before we actually met, he had told me that he had a "3 Year Plan" wherein he was just sticking it out with the Mrs. until his kids were a little older and in high school to get divorced. That plan sort of got a turbo boost. Bunn started calling and looking for a lawyer 9 days after we met. I was playing it cool though. Even though we both realized on day 5, I think it was, that we were way totally in love, I told him that there was no way I was going to sleep with him while he was still living with Kathy, and he was cool with that. Couldn't help myself though and ended up sleeping with him for the first time 13 days into the relationship. A momentous occasion that drove Melanie nuts. "13 days, Kurt???" Her fault for reading the diary... Lori thought I was nuts too. Hell, I thought I was nuts, but everything about the relationship just felt so right. I've never ever in my entire life been more in love with anyone than I (still) am with Kurt. Fuck - I'm starting to get all teary just thinking about it. So it's now a year later and as luck would have it, he's once again working out by me this week. We carpooled this morning. He's working at Northbrook Court Mall and is picking me up this afternoon at 2:30 and taking me to dinner at P.F. Chang's. After that, I think we'll stop in at Old Munich for a drink just for tradition's sake. Oh, and Bill F.? As for the sex, there was no sex to be had over the weekend, but Monday night was mind-blowing. He's thrown a new little trick into the mix, and when he was done, I asked him to please get out of bed and go write it down so as not to forget what he had just done. LOL He was awesome. He IS awesome. He's the love of my life and my soulmate, and if I live to be 100, it won't be enough time to spend with him. Goddamnit - I'm crying again. Hasta! Looking back... Just Pix - 2005-02-08
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